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An illustrated guide to my inner critic…

One of the main reasons why I remain a stereotypically broke artist – is because of the way I think. I am very proud to say that I have come a long long way when it comes to slowly reprogramming the way I see myself.  It has been many years since I have disliked...
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JULY, 2016 I have been going through another metamorphosis of late… I do this every couple of years.  Mostly not on purpose… it just kinda… happens. I’m beginning to better understand these (inevitable) seasons of change.  And I’m also...
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A visual journey through my inconsistent creations

So… today I updated my “About Me” page with a long, rambling post… One of the things it has taken me a long time to come to terms with is my inconsistency… or maybe – a kinder way to say it is:  “Every-Day-Change”. My...
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Am I a “real” artist?

So… for as long as I can possibly remember – I have had these stubborn stereotypes stuck in my head.  And for decades, I have used these stereotypes as yardsticks to measure myself (and my abilities).  Of course, I’m sure it comes as no surprise to...
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Dealing with my shit (and showing you my ME-Manifesto)

So… after yesterday’s little melt-down… and – with much-appreciated support from friends and tribe’sters… today – I am squashing bugs and dealing with demons. The thing about change is that it’s a journey and a process....
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Are you drifting or sailing?

I have often been asked the “HOW” question. How did change happen?  What did it look like?  What steps were taken?  How did we know which direction to take?  How did the process all begin?  It’s great that life changed so dramatically – but...
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Preview of Hat’s book

So – as most of you already know – I have written and illustrated a book.  Here’s a preview of the first couple of pages (followed by a whole bunch of wonderful feedback from people all over the world): PS:  It’s a poem – so read it out...
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The Emancipation from the Expectation!

“Expectation is the root of all heartache” – Shakespeare Ugh.  Expectations.  I’m sure that every person reading this post knows about expectations:  the burdensome ideals place upon your life by other people (and oftentimes, yourself):    All...
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My 18th, Hawaiian themed birthday party (with Mom and Soo).

How my mother saved my sanity

So… it looks as though my blog post about Ken Robinson’s “Gillian” story is picking up pace again… and I have been receiving a number of mails in my in-box. By the way – I love connecting!  And – as time-consuming as replying...
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We ALL want the freedom to be ourselves

So… something new happened on my blog recently. A post of mine went a bit viral. Not viral (in terms of the internet)… not truly viral… but certainly viral for ME and my lil’ ol’ blog. I usually get around 100 visitors (to my blog) every...
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So…  a day or three ago… I was sitting in a coffee shop… and a question popped into my mind.  I immediately wrote it down… and pondered for a while. Here’s what I wrote: I think… one of the reasons why that question popped into my mind (in the first place) was...
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For a number of years now…  I’ve had this growing discontentment with Society and the Status Quo… and How-Things-Are. I just don’t believe in it any more. In fact, not only do I NOT believe in it… I think it’s poisonous.  And life-sucking.  And vile....
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What it’s like to live in Cape Town

So… since February… we’ve been living in Cape Town. Well – not Cape Town city… but rather, the Cape Peninsula… otherwise known as “The Deep South”… otherwise described as “living behind the lentil curtain”. Life is very pleasant...
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An illustrated guide to my personalities

I haven’t blogged for about a month… which is very unlike me. Part of the reason is because I’ve been trying to sort through the noise in my head.  And I’m constantly trying to figure out what I want this blog to say… and what projects I want to...
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Finding Me: A photo story

I was going through some of my photos today…  and I came across a special photo that brought a smile to my face. The photo was of me… at my tramp-themed birthday party.  I’m grinning manically in front of my tramp cake (that my aunt baked for me)… wearing my...
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Hat's book is now available world-wide!

You can buy the book from Amazon, download a digital copy from Gumroad... or order from us directly. Click here to find out more!Click here to preview the book!

“I can’t explain the emotions your story and your illustrations provoke.  Powerful stuff.  It’s not every day that my husband tears up while reading a book”


“Your story and your poem hit me in the heart and reached my soul.  I burst into tears as I read your words because it resonated so deeply.  My sobbing, uncontrollable, as I considered all the people trapped in society’s ‘norm’.  You must get this message out!”


“I am a fellow outcast – rediscovering myself in a big, scary world.  Thank-you, oh thank-you for finding yourself and sharing your story”


“I feel overwhelmed.  I just wanted to say how beautiful your book is and to thank you from those of us still trying to break free.  You are a gift”


“Tears.  Love it.  Couldn’t feel more this way.  Grew up in foster homes.  Stifled the artist.  Never felt like I fit in.  Still don’t.  Still searching for the courage to be me.  Thank-you.”


“Wow.  I’ve just read that and cried.  This is me, and I’ve been told so many of the same things.  I am trying to dig myself out of ‘normal’.  You do what you do for ALL of us”


“Your poem is beautiful.  It captured my heart and my mind.  I want to have your books around for myself and as a reminder to allow my children to be the ‘Hats’ that they are”


“I’m spending a lot of time trying to figure out how to get my ‘HAT’ness’ back and trying to understand how I lost it in the first place.  I now have a little boy and I don’t want him to lose sight of his dreams as I lost sight of mine”


Would you like to preview the first 18 pages of Hat's book?

You can also read some extra feedback from people all over the world who resonated with Hat’s story.

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